May 9, 2013
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hey Lauren! so my ex boyfriend and I are still on love with each othe but we talk on and off like its kinda like we get in a fight so we stop talking for two weeks then start talking again . I kinda started to like this other guy because I know I need to move on from my ex and he found out some how and he's now ignoring me like he "accidently" sent a text to me that said "I just want her to talk to me" and I want to too but I just feel like he ignores me and I need to get over him what do I do
Anonymous
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Hey there! You need to do what your heart is telling you to do. Don’t try to have a new boy if you’re truly not ready. Don’t love when you’re lonely, but when you’re ready. If you think it’s time to really move on from your ex then do so! You can do anything you want to do. You need to tell him how you feel and that you are trying to move on and if you’re not then just tell him how you feel and try to work it out.

May 9, 2013
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Hey! So, there is this guy that i've really really been crushing hard on all year. A few of our friends told me that he liked me too but it's kind of hard to tell considering we don't have classes together and the only time we see each other is for a few minutes during lunch. My best friend plays around with his hair and other things that she should know bothers me but does them anyway. I personally think he might like her but I don't know. Any tips, please?
Anonymous
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Hey there.. well you can simply ask and you’ll probably get the straight forward answer you’re wanting or just wait it out and see where things go? Maybe just having a heart to heart will help. That’s what I always try to do when I want to know after I’m speculating something. It’s scary, but the most effective typically.

May 9, 2013
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Hey beautiful! So i've been invited to go on a vacay with my sort-of friend and her family for AN ENTIRE WEEKEND. We are friends, but she is slightly annoying and tries too hard to fit in when she should just be herself. Im not sure how to tell her that I really don't want to go on the trip but not hurt her feelings. I already kind of messed it up by telling her that my parents said maybe. Help please? Thank you so so much :)
Anonymous
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Hey there! Well theres two options.. to either tell the truth or to not tell the truth.  I mean you could go and have a blast and maybe make a better friend? Or maybe go ahead and make plans and not go?

May 8, 2013
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Hey so i was just wondering if you think a relationship between two girls one being 17 the other one 23 can work in the long run. Because everything is good they only thing is not being able to see each other that often because she has strick parents. And she admitts she could lose feelings of we are apart too long.
Anonymous
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Hey!

For one, age doesn’t matter. Two, distance is only a problem if you make it.  I think it’s very possible for it to work! Yes, parents can be an issue.  But once she’s 18 (only another year) technically she can choose to do what she wants and also if you two really care about each other and want to make it work, put in the effort and trust, then it’s very possible :) Good luck!

May 8, 2013
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Hey beautiful! Sooo i have been seeing my ex again, the last time i see him was a months ago almost a year. I hate that its inevitable because our family know each other. You see i am fine when i don't see him but when he's there my heart still races sometimes... I know that i would be seeing him more this summer. I am so confused because I've been trying to avoid him, which make me seem like the bad one, honestly i cant be close to him otherwise feelings will come back.. what should i do? THX!!
Anonymous
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Hey! That’s really difficult. Either you’re going to have to distance yourself or convice yourself theres no use in having feeling for him when you see him which seems difficult.  Pretty much distance is the easiest thing..I would encourage you to try to no be around when he is as much as possible.  Make other plans, go out with friends, go for a walk..it’s possible!

March 31, 2013
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Hey Lauren :) Lately ive been thinking about my ex.. i thought ive moved on. i really did. we haven't talk or see each other for almost a year now. I think the feeling come back has something to do with him liking this girl. do you think its because im just jealous? or i never got over him?
Anonymous
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Hey there! I know the feeling. I think honestly if you cared about him a lot then there will always be a part of you that thinks about him here and there.. I think that’s completely normal.  Also it’s human nature to not necessarily get jealous about the other girl but think about how that was once you and feelings come rushing back.  I wouldn’t jump right to conclusions thinking you’re not over him since It has been a while.  I think you will always care in a way and it’s natural for your thoughts to go there.. don’t over think it :)

February 17, 2013
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hey lauren :) i know it's a dumb thing, but all of my friends get 60 likes on their photos on facebook, and i get basically 20 every time. i always feel the ugliest, dumbest, loneliest and basically, inferior near them. my self esteem sucks and i can't take it anymore. specially when i'm obviously the worst on my group of friends... what should i do?
Anonymous
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Hey there! Well theres nothing really specific you can do except believe in yourself. I know it’s really hard to do sometimes, we’ve all been there. You just eventually have to change your way of thinking and realize how valuable and special you are. Also, maybe if you have higher confidence you will have more people paying attention to you. Confidence is sexy!

February 2, 2013
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I'm really tired of dwelling over my ex, I still care about him and probably always will but I think after 7 months of this I need to move on. Btw we're still good friends and talk every once in a while... Is that bad? Do you have any suggestions on how I should go about this?! Thanks!
Anonymous
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Hey! I don’t think it’s “bad” but you can definitely care about someone but still move on. It’s really hard, I know where you’re at but you just have to remember how you felt and why you don’t need to feel that way. It truly is hard to be JUST friends with an ex without old feelings resurfacing. Maybe try not to chat for a while till you move on and maybe even find someone else then try being “friends” again. In my opinion, it’s just too hard to do that with someone you were in love with.

January 16, 2013
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I really like this guy, and he's been my best friend since the beginning of high school. We know everything about one another, and it's just impossible to be more than friends, you know? Plus, he's been pretty "in love" with a super pretty and genuine girl, who's not me. Either way, I can't really deal with having to see him everyday and hiding my feelings :( What should I do? Thanks in advance <3
Anonymous
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Hey! Well what’s here today is gone tomorrow I always say. You never know what could happen to him or you or even his situation so before it’s too late I always say it’s best to tell people how you feel. It’s sooooo so so scary, believe me, been there done that. But you need to tell him how you truly feel and maybe deep down even a little he feels the same way too. You can’t really do anything other than tell him how you feel and move on with your life and it’ll feel really good to get it out whether anything comes out of it or not, in my opinion.

January 16, 2013
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If i sent you a message off anonymous would you be ale to answer it privately? Or do you like them anonymous because then it helps others in the same situation?
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Absolutely! Whatever you need.